
Hello
My name is Trisha Ierston and I am a Spanish speaking, accredited divorce and break up coach. I am also a Chartered, Certified accountant, with nearly 20 years experience in the world of number crunching. I am also a mum, a daughter, a sister, an auntie, a best friend and I make a lovely cuppa! I'm empathetic, caring and a great listener, and I am here to help you on your journey.
My Story
I didn’t have a place to turn to when my own relationship ended. I had the legal support but no clear guidance on how to sit with the silence, manage the unknown, or have the conversations I was afraid to have.
That experience has stayed with me, and it’s what led me here, to provide the space I once needed — calm, compassionate, and focused on clarity during separation and divorce.
I bring both personal and professional understanding to this work. I’ve lived through an unhappy marriage, the trauma of making the decision to leave, the end of a marriage, supported my own children through divorce, navigating finances and raising children alone. I know how layered this experience can be — the grief, the confusion, and the instinct to stay quiet to keep the peace.
Alongside this, I have over 20 years’ experience working as an accountant, 6 of these as a forensic accountant for a family lawyer, specialising in supporting people who have taken the bold step towards building a better future and stepping away from a situation where silence often felt like a form of safety.
Much of my work centres on difficult conversations, facing uncertain realities . I help people find words when they’ve learned not to speak, express their needs clearly, and listen with intention — whether they’re navigating separation, lone parenting, co-parenting or ongoing communication with an ex-partner.
A large part of my work focuses on the finance in divorce framework and I can help you to save thousands by getting your finances and forms in order and a clear, calm and clear perspective with a full understanding of how it all works before you even walk in to your solicitors office. I will also guide your through the financial side of things and assist with the various forms and stages with a clear and professional mind.
As an accredited Sara Davison Divorce & Breakup Coach, I support both men and women to rebuild confidence, set healthy boundaries, and begin again with a stronger sense of self.


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